When we take the marriage vows, we always want our marriage to be everlasting. However, the fact is that marriages break up and divorce is a reality that we are all aware of. So while you must make every possible effort to save your marriage, you must also be aware of the signs that your marriage is over. There is no point in carrying the burden of a dead relationship.It is important that self-realisation comes to you. It is only by your instinct that you will know when to call it quits in your marriage.
A bad marriage is not worth the effort you are putting into it. You also need to realise that your partner may not be willing to put in the same effort into the marriage.Never take the moral high ground when it comes to calling it quits in your marriage. Your marriage may be emotionally over even before either you or your spouse file for divorce or even move out. Try to check for these signs that your marriage is over.
Signs indicating that your marriage is over are:
1.One Spouse Refuses To Try: There is no harm in having marriage problems and disagreements. But when one spouse refuses to try and find solutions or talk, then the marriage is finished.
2.You Cannot Agree About Anything: It is normal to have fights and differences of opinion. But when you just cannot agree about anything, then it means that you have sub-consciously decided not to try and save your marriage.
3.You Stop Talking: Silence can literally kill your marriage. If you two fall silent as soon as you see each other, then it a signs that your marriage is nearing its end.
4.No Intimacy In Months: Marriage is an intimate relationship and a large part of that intimacy is physical. If you have not been physically close to your partner in months and don’t even feel the urge to do so, then you know that it is time to call it quits.
5.You Consciously Avoid Each Other: You may find yourself making a mental plan to stay back at work for a couple of hours so that you do not have to face your spouse at the dinner table. If you are trying to consciously avoid your spouse, then you must end your marriage.
6.You Make Your Own Plans: You make your own plans about moving to another city, a new job or even plan to travel without taking your spouse into consideration. Such a thing would never happen in a marriage that is thriving.
7.No Compromise Attitude: You or your spouse suddenly decides that you have made enough compromises for this marriage and you are not going to make another single compromise. If you have a no compromise attitude to small things like reducing the television volume while your spouse sleeps, you are headed for a split.
8.You Stop Sharing Finances: When you have mentally made up your mind to take a divorce, you will start safeguarding your own money. You refuse to pay up the mortgages and even take your money out of the joint accounts.
9.You Cheat And Feel No Guilt: Cheating on your spouse is not always physical. You can emotionally cheat on your spouse by giving their share of attention to someone else. So when you cheat on your spouse by having dinner with someone else or even having a fling and feel no guilt, then your marriage has reached its end.
These are the signs that your marriage is over
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