Relationships work differently for everyone. But the fundamentals of a relationship remain the same. Trust, love, support, respect and necessary space, constitute a good relationship.Often when we speak about support, it tends to levitate towards being clingy. But being supportive isn’t being clingy or always making time for each other, no matter what. To be supportive you need to respect each other for the individuals that you are. And more importantly you need to respect yourself.Here are some ways to be a supportive partner.
Ways to be a supportive partner are:
1.Listen: One of the best tips on how to be a supportive partner would be to just simply, listen. A support system works because we know someone, somewhere cares about us so much that they are ready to take any crap. Don’t judge, offer advice or suggest solutions. Just listen.
2.Be Supportive: Every person on planet earth wants appreciation, encouragement and a little validation. When your better half is going through a rough patch don’t let things tumble. Do your part, as well as your partner’s. After all, you’re supposed to be there for each other always.
3.Not Everything is About You: It is common to take out frustration on our loved ones when we are upset. Don’t get upset, as your partner is just going through a difficult phase. Don’t make it about you by fighting back. Give it time and they will realise their folly and apologise. But don’t count on it. It’s ok even if they don’t.
4.Give Him/Her Space: At times it is necessary to take some time off for ourselves. Your partner feels the same too. Be there for each other but don’t be clingy. Let them decide if they wanna spend time with you or they wanna go out with some friends. Don’t be bitter about it, it’ll only strengthen your relationship.
5.Just Be There In The Moment: Live in the present and be there for your partner whenever they need you. The assurance that someone out there exists just for you is something powerful. Reaching out to that person and finding them there, always ready to help you is wonderful. It’s not about a safe landing zone, it’s about eternal and unconditional love.
These are the tips to be a supportive partner.
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