Most women end up heartbroken
because they were trying to convince the
wrong man to be in a relationship/ marriage.
The signs are always there but we just choose
to ignore them. It is almost the end of the
year and maybe one of your resolutions was
settling down or be serious with your relations
but your man is still playing. Are you sure he
is the one for you?
Let us see if you need to leave him
The confirmed bachelor
You wanted to date mature men because
obviously you do not want to be given the run
around by these young guys. But your
confirmed bachelor is looking too comfortable
with the state of your relationship. He is 40,
but shouldn’t he want to settle down? Maybe
that is what was never in his plans which you
need to have found out. People make
decisions way long before they meet you. So
you are there thinking maybe he will
eventually, the man is not going to. You might
just need to move on.
Career driven guy
One of the things you might have actually
liked about him. He was focused, he knew
where he wanted to go, he has vision. Not like
this other ones who look like they do not have
a purpose. You like this relationship because
this is the type of man you want to raise kids.
Until time is passing by, your friends have
settled and yours is not thinking marriage.
We talk about career driven women, what
about the men? There are men until they
reach where they have set a target to go,
family will not be a priority. A wife will be the
last thing on his mind. So if your vision is
now, you might have to look for it elsewhere.
Risky- if you wait and he tells you eventually,
he does not think of you as a wife.
The one who is not done with the women
If you are dating and he is still dating around,
just know, chances are that this man will not
for anything serious with you. Someone who
does, normally drops all of them for you. But
someone who has let you know he is still
seeing other people- he is not done!
Finding himself
Don’t dare even try help a man find himself.
Let him do that on his own. You will get the
shocker of your life when you try giving a man
direction. You will be the ‘mum’ that gets
dumped.
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